In Japanese society, they said when we enter work and business sphere we should try to build good background from the begining for the benefit of future. The following is a kind of test used to eveluate yourself. From which you can score yourself and see how good you are at understanding the atmoshpere around you. I have got this from Sensei while attending a business class prepare for an internship. I do found it worth to share, please visit http://www5.big.or.jp/~seraph/zero/ky.cgi to score yourself, it would be uesful if you wish to work with Japanse people. However, the evlaution is completely in Japanese. The following are my translation for the 24 points:
1- What you want to say is not accept by others
自分がこうだと思ったら頑として譲らないたちだ.
2-In the case where the atmosphere is becoming bad you are able to chage topic and improve the atmopshere.
場が気まずい雰囲気になった時にすぐに別の話題を投げることで雰囲気を変えることができる。
3-You are the type of person where in the event of official meeting you feel discourage to express your idea.
大勢の会議や打ち合わせでは黙っていて余り発言しない方だ。
4-You have to ability to understand other people’s feeling without hearing them said it out
相手の表情やしぐさから口には出さない本音を読み取ることが得意だ。
5-While having conversation with friends you always go directly to the main topic
友達との会話ではいつも話の中心にいる
6-In the case where you are so exited you burst and shout out.
ついかっとなって声を荒立ててしまうことがある
7-You are able to give the right answer to your partner easily
質問に対して相手の期待されている答えを返すことは容易だ
8-Frequently while joining nomikai or compa party you would can not put yourself in that place
合コンや飲み会では、場のノリについていけないことがよくある
9-After understood the blog of net page of other you try to express your own idea
ネットの掲示板やブログでの議論ではこれまでの話の流れをよく理解した上で発言するようにしている
10-Without hearing the words, by looking at other people eyes or their face and change You can adjust their feeling accordingly.
喋らなくても目や表情だけで相手の気持ちを動かすことができる
11-While in the middle of talking just by lookin at your partner face you can guess the Yes or No answer.
話しながら相手の顔色を見て内容やyes/noを切り変えることは得意だ
12-You are the type of person who can hear 1 question but could understand 10 answers.
人の話は大体「1を聞いて10を知る」ことができる
13-It is easy measure the relationship of two people by sitting near in the cafe or having fastfood and conversation.
カフェやファストフード店で隣に座っている2人の会話から、2人の関係を推測することは容易だ
14-To tell the right answer you sometime hurt the feeling of your partner.
正論で人を傷つけてしまうことがある
15-On the train when you know the hobby of your freind you unintentionally say it in loudly.
電車の中で友達と趣味の話をしていると知らず知らず大声で話してしまっていることがある
16-In the party you always feel that you wear cloth which is different from others and spoil the surrounding.
パーティなどの集まりでは他の人が着ていく服装を聞いて浮かないように気をつけている
17-You always want to talk about the thing you like regardless how long it is.
自分の好きな話題ではいくらでも話し続けてしまう
18-You guess the meaning of your partner’s words but still sometime still misunderstand.
相手の言葉を文字通りに受け取ってしまい、問題になることがしばしばある
19-In the meeting of many people, you talk so little but still can understand and classify type of people.
複数人の初対面の集まりでも、少し話せば各人の立ち位置や関係を把握することができる
20-You often cause trouble on other poeple’s idea
他人の発言を遮って話すことがしばしばある
21-You are the type of person who is easily convince with other people’s idea
他人の意見に同調しやすい人間だ
22-Although you don’t know your partner’s topic you are still able to get along with.
自分の知らない方面の話題であっても、相手に合わせて話すことができる
23-You are very good at using polite form (humble and honorific form)
敬語は得意だ
24-Whatever you like or hate you need to talk out otherwise you dont feel safe or enough
自分に対する好意や嫌悪は、はっきりと口に出して言って貰わないと気づかない
This evaluation is based on the socioarc. Go on and test yourself and see how japanese society score you. http://www5.big.or.jp/~seraph/zero/ky.cgi !!!!!
please refer to http://www5.big.or.jp/~seraph/zero/ for detail.