I came across this song on youtube. Her voice is so sweet. Well, the word “Nadasoso” riginated from Okinawa, first sang by Moriyama Ryoko. The meaning of the song is about a lady wish to meet the one she always has in her mind.This song is for the one i always think about.I know she love this song. I will always with her to give her support to the endless time where i dont know. Regardless, the ending and so long as I can give her all I can.
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pinispinus // April 13, 2008 at 3:02 pm
It sounds very beautiful, and I may understand how she feels, but I am not sure how you feel. I suppose that you feel the same, and at least you can send her a song of her likeness and a song of what and how you want her to know. Just do as much as you can for her is enough, and hope this song will also help you to always be strong.
Savuth // April 14, 2008 at 1:27 am
Thanks for your comments. Love is to forgive not to forget. This is one of the principles I have with me. And I am always proud of this phrase. Some say it exists only in drama but it is the type I am. Choosing a lover is like choosing a flower, in the case of Cambodian context the flower where we can choose only one and once. When, I first decided to choose this flower because I do love it. I have no regret for my decision and I am ready to accept for any kind of consequences. Only people who fear of the end and don’t believe in himself and his partner will give it up. Love is what we have to live with not to escape. I just want to give the one I love the value and supports. I do understand her feeling and I do believe that only she could understand my feeling since we have been walking on this way for long.
For, the strength, I do accept that love is part of my live but there are many other goals in my life where I always wish, I have to work hard to achieve those ambitions. Though, I don’t say much but I do think a lots. I always think for every step I make.
pinispinus // April 14, 2008 at 3:41 am
Thanks for your description of how you feel about her. I am please to hear your vision, your principle, and your strength. As long as you know what you should do and what you should not do, I am sure you are on the right track.
“Choosing a lover is like choosing a flower, in the case of Cambodian context the flower where we can choose only one and once. ” What happen if we chose the wrong one? What happen if when we chose we were not mature yet? What happen if after we chose we are not happy with this flower? Should we continue the rest of our life with this painful family within this Cambodian context?
We must change if we believe that changes can make it much better than the situation in which culture dominates. Anyway, no matter which way you choose you must be sure that you must not live for OTHERS, but you live for YOURSELF. You must not only live to make others around you, but mainly and firstly you must live to make you and your lover happy. Do not care too much about the Cambodian culture.
Economically, if you live with happiness you will be more productive, and would contribute to the economic growth and the social welfare as a whole since every one is satisfied with this life. I am not sure if economic reasons can be something that we should change the culture. A long with this, “not talking much” is not something that you cannot change. It also depends on whether you are happy with this habit or not. If not, change it if not for you, for the one you love.
Savuth // April 14, 2008 at 8:17 am
Thanks for good advice. Live for yourself and for your love is good advice. I will take it .Well, what about if we choose the wrong flower? Well we can try to change it, talk with each other find the solution and try to make it right, to the much possibility we can. What if we are not mature yet? Then build ourselves to become mature. What if we choose the flower and then unhappy? This is the serious problem that you have raised. But do you know when will it be?
I don’t know but once I chose this flower I must ready to accept the ending. I must know that such kind of ending can happen. But it dose not related with the thing that I have to give her support. I will always give her supports. Though, we have to go apart. Just to do good things for the one we love is not wrong.
I don’t want to spend much time on this problem. As I told there are other goals I want to do.
Thank for your last word. You said that I should be happy. Yes, I’m happy now. why? I have my parents, my brothers, sisters, goods friends here, and good advisor like you. My close friend used to make fun of me that I have everything knowledge, capacity, ability and opportunity. He is not wrong. However, there are still things that I have to build myself more and more. Then, I may need your help. Let move for the bright! We are here all have our goals. Let her choose the right she wish and remember love is to forgive not to forget.
Cheers,
Savuth